Ep7_Dancing with Risk: How Discomfort Becomes the Gateway to Your Iconic Life

What if the fear in your chest, the flush of embarrassment, or the pit in your stomach… wasn’t a stop sign, but a green light?

In this powerful and play-filled conversation, I sit down with Becca Ploener—risk mentor, adventure junkie, and leader of The Dare Challenge—to explore what happens when we stop running from discomfort and start dancing with it.

Becca’s story is one of courage, movement, and reclamation. From whitewater kayaking to dancing in grocery store aisles, she’s learned that risk isn’t the enemy—it’s the pathway home to authenticity. Once burned out from the music industry, Becca has built a life rooted in adventure, embodiment, and boldness. Through her work, she helps women expand their nervous system capacity, stop waiting for permission, and take daring action toward the life they were created to live.

Together, we talk about what it means to turn fear into fuel, embrace the unknown, and find joy—even in the messy, unpredictable moments that stretch us most. Because when we stop avoiding discomfort, we don’t just grow stronger—we grow freer.

This episode is for the woman who’s ready to stop playing it safe and start living her most iconic, alive, and limitless life.

💫 Inside This Episode

  • Why risk isn’t something to avoid—it’s an invitation to freedom

  • How to expand your body’s capacity to hold discomfort (without burning out)

  • Becca’s shift from burnout → boldness, music → movement, safe → iconic

  • The power of play and presence—why dancing in the grocery store or adding rainbow sprinkles to your day matters more than you think

  • How to make discomfort your greatest teacher and turn fear into your compass toward expansion


🌿 Meet Becca Ploener

Becca Ploener is a risk mentor for bold, badass women who are done waiting for life to happen to them—and are ready to start creating it on purpose.

She helps women take courageous leaps—whether that’s publishing a book, building a six-figure business, moving across the world, going on a Grand Canyon adventure, falling in love, or finally standing up for what they believe in.

Becca’s philosophy is simple but radical:
Stop avoiding death. Stop mitigating risk. Start performing with it.
Because when you learn to move with risk instead of against it, you realize you’ve had the power all along.

Life isn’t about waiting for the “good stuff” to arrive—
it’s about becoming the kind of woman who makes it happen, boldly, bravely, and on cue.


🔗 Connect with Becca

🌐 Join the Ongoing DARE: Risk Exploration Game 
💬 “Risky Bitches in a DARE” Facebook Group 
🌈 Weird As F*ck – 7-Week Group Program 
📸 Instagram: @wildwomanbecca 
🔗 Website: www.wildwomanbecca.com 


📚 Becca’s Favorite Reads (Past 6 Months)

  1. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle

  2. Women Living Deliciously by Florence Given

  3. Wild Feminine by Tami Lynn Kent